
Today’s post is about my journey trying to raise my daughter properly. This includes a daily fight against advertising, other people, and myself!
It is not easy those days to raise a girl to become a godly woman, who respects herself and others, a true princess!
You know, my daughter is in the “princess stage”, she is a princess. She is always speaking about her growing up, getting married to a prince like Dad and they would have 4 children!
It is cute to listen to her!
Though, the other day, she was telling that to a woman that I know, and this woman was shocked.
She told me how she didn’t think that was nice for my daughter to “make her think she would find a prince and get married to him“. You know, she began telling me how Walt Disney movies were bad, that girls should think about studying to have a carrier and be independent woman that would not need a man to live and take care for her.
A true feminist!
Obviously, I don’t agree with that. I will not enter in the “why” , it would be a really long post for you to read!
What I told this woman is that I like the fact that my daughter thinks she is a princess, and I will teach her that if she wants to find a prince some day, she should act like a princess.
Do you know what I mean?
I am constantly fighting the powerful advertising we can see everywhere promoting a violent independent woman, who is considered just for her body, and the (vulgar) sexy way she is dressed.
This very same woman that I portrayed will then tell you in a pseudo-feminist pledge that it is all a lye, princes don’t exist anymore and she can’t find a single man that is kind, gentle, respectful etc… Basically, men are all mean and sexually obsessed…

Well, girls, be realistic, if you want a prince, act as a princess!
Snow white (my daughter’s favorite) was not dressed like a br*tz, she was not messing around while waiting for the prince of her dreams.
No, she was kind and gentle, she took good care of the house, cleaning and baking pies, and making sure all the dwarfs were Ok.
You know, I always use to say that one of the most important things in life is coherence. If you expect something, you have to act and think in the way that will allow you to get what you want.
Don’t expect in a man the qualities you don’t have yourself. If you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect a man to do so.
If you think your body is more important than your brain, don’t expect others to watch and value your brain! and on and on…
I found this interesting article from the American Psychological Association about the fact that girls are “sexualized” and how that affects their image of themselves etc… You can read it HERE.
Wow, I am apparently not the only one who thinks this bad image of women is wrong!
Well, my hope for today is that my daughter will grow up thinking she is a princess, and acting as a princess, and I am sure she will find some day a nice prince who will respect her and will see her as the princess of his heart.
Raising girls is not that easy those days but we have to be faithful and pray for our girls to grow in the grace of the Lord and find themselves to be daughters of the King, which means they are true princesses!
Have a nice day!