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A great speech to read from John Taylor Gatto April 17, 2009

Today I want to share with you a speech that was told by John Taylor Gatto while accepting the New York City Teacher of the Year Award in 1990.

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It is a powerful text that makes you think. I hope you will enjoy it.

I accept this award on behalf of all the fine teachers I’ve known over the years who’ve struggled to make their transactions with children honorable ones, men and women who are never complacent, always questioning, always wrestling to define and redefine endlessly what the word “education” should mean. A Teacher of the Year is not the best teacher around, those people are too quiet to be easily uncovered, but he is a standard-bearer, symbolic of these private people who spend their lives gladly in the service of children. This is their award as well as mine.

We live in a time of great school crisis. We rank at the bottom of 19 industrial nations in reading, writing and arithmetic. At the very bottom. The world’s narcotic economy is based upon our own consumption of the commodity, if we didn’t buy so many powdered dreams the business would collapse — and schools are an important sales outlet. Our teenage suicide rate is the highest in the world and suicidal kids are rich kids for the most part, not the poor. In Manhattan 50% of all new marriages last less than five years. So something is wrong for sure.

This is a time of great school crisis and that crisis is interlinked with a greater social crisis in the general community. We seem to have lost our identity. Children and old people are penned up and locked away from the business of the world to a degree without precedent — nobody talks to them anymore and without children and old people mixing in daily life a community has no future and no past, only a continuous present. In fact, the name “community” hardly applies to the way we interact with each other. We live in networks, not communities, and everyone I know is lonely because of that. In some strange way school is a major actor in this tragedy just as it is a major actor in the widening guilt among social classes. Using school as a sorting mechanism we appear to be on the way to creating a caste system, complete with untouchables who wander through subway trains begging and sleep on the streets.

I’ve noticed a fascinating phenomenon in my 25 years of teaching — that schools and schooling are increasingly irrelevant to the great enterprises of the planet. No one believes anymore that scientists are trained in science classes or politicians in civics classes or poets in English classes. The truth is that schools don’t really teach anything except how to obey orders. This is a great mystery to me because thousands of humane, caring people work in schools as teachers and aids and administrators but the abstract logic of the institution overwhelms their individual contributions. Although teachers do care and do work very hard the institution is psychopathic, it has no conscience. It rings a bell and the young man in the middle of writing a poem must close his notebook and move to different cell where he must memorize that man and monkeys derive from a common ancestor.

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Raising a princess… March 26, 2009

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Today’s post is about my journey trying to raise my daughter properly. This includes a daily fight against advertising, other people, and myself!

It is not easy those days to raise a girl to become a godly woman, who respects herself and others, a true princess!

You know, my daughter is in the “princess stage”, she is a princess. She is always speaking about her growing up, getting married to a prince like Dad and they would have 4 children!

It is cute to listen to her!

Though, the other day, she was telling that to a woman that I know, and this woman was shocked.

She told me how she didn’t think that was  nice for my daughter to “make her think she would find a prince and get married to him“. You know, she began telling me how Walt Disney movies were bad, that girls should think about studying to have a carrier and be independent woman that would not need a man to live and take care for her.

A true feminist! ;)

Obviously, I don’t agree with that. I will not enter in the “why” , it would be a really long post for you to read!
What I told this woman is that I like the fact that my daughter thinks she is a princess, and I will teach her that if she wants to find a prince some day, she should act like a princess.

Do you know what I mean?

I am constantly fighting the powerful advertising we can see everywhere promoting a violent independent woman, who is considered just for her body, and the (vulgar)  sexy way she is dressed.

This very same woman that I portrayed will then tell you in a pseudo-feminist pledge that it is all a lye, princes don’t exist anymore and she can’t find a single man that is kind, gentle, respectful etc… Basically, men are all mean and sexually obsessed…

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Well, girls, be realistic, if you want a prince, act as a princess!
Snow white (my daughter’s favorite) was not dressed like a br*tz, she was not messing around while waiting for the prince of her dreams.
No, she was kind and gentle, she took good care of the house, cleaning and baking pies, and making sure all the dwarfs were Ok.

You know, I always use to say that one of the most important things in life is coherence. If you expect something, you have to act and think in the way that will allow you to get what you want.

Don’t expect in a man the qualities you don’t have yourself. If you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect a man to do so.

If you think your body is more important than your brain, don’t expect others to watch and value your brain! and on and on…

I found this interesting article from the American Psychological Association about the fact that girls are “sexualized” and how that affects their image of themselves etc… You can read it HERE.

Wow, I am apparently not the only one who thinks this bad image of women is wrong! :)

Well, my hope for today is that my daughter will grow up thinking she is a princess, and acting as a princess, and I am sure she will find some day a nice prince who will respect her and will see her as the princess of his heart.

Raising girls is not that easy those days but we have to be faithful and pray for our girls to grow in the grace of the Lord and find themselves to be daughters of the King, which means they are true princesses! :)

Have a nice day!

 

The Jesus Film Project March 15, 2009

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Did you noticed this link on my blog? I want to write something about it . I recently found this website and this project.

It exists since 1979, and since then, the Jesus film has been watched by billions all around the world!

This film is a very powerful tool !

You can watch the Jesus film for children HERE. It is a very good resource for children!

I also found a 6 week course “The Story of Jesus for Children”. It includes lessons, and teacher-mentor’s guide. All for free! Download it HERE.

Go and check this great website for more awesome resources for evangelism and discipleship for you and your children!

 

Great book for character study March 4, 2009

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Remember when I told I was studying characters with Cecilia? HERE

Well, I have been to the SAVER store next to my house today, and I found the perfect book to complete this study!

It is THE CHILDREN’S BOOK OF VIRTUES by William J. Bennett,illustrated by Michael Hague.

I couldn’t believe it when I found it. It is absolutely brand new, and it cost me just 69 cents!!

I can tell I love this book! Especially the illustrations, they are stunning. That is definitely a good buy, I recommend it to everyone.

It comes at the perfect time and will be the perfect addition to our characters study!


I will share with you one of my favorites chapter:

Compassion and faith: A Child’s Prayer


Lord, Teach a little child to pray,
And then accept my prayer;
For thou canst hear the words I say:
For thou art everywhere.

A little sparrow cannot fall
Unnoticed, Lord, by thee;
And though I am so young and small:
Thou dost take care of me.

Teach me to do the thing that’s right,
And when I sin, forgive;
And make it still my chief delight
To serve thee while I live.

I feel so blessed to have found this gorgeous book! Have a nice day! :)

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New homeschooling resource page! February 27, 2009

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I don’t know if you noticed that, but I am working on a new page, trying to put all my links and stuff about homeschooling all together!

You can see this new page called ” Homeschooling Resources“, by going to the top navigation bar.

It is still under construction, I will be adding more links and also some description of the links, but I hope this new page will be done by next week and will be a nice interesting one for all homeschooling moms out there! :)

If you have a link that you would like to share, please leave it in a comment! :)

Have a nice day! :)

 

Homeschooling and books update! February 27, 2009

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Hi there! I will post some news about our progress homeschooling Cecilia.

She is 4 1/2, and in her first year of homeschooling, we don’t use any curriculum, just a lot of resource from the web.

I am so proud of my little girl! She has make a lot of progress in English, she can now speak it quite well.

That is amazing how children can learn so quick and easy!

So, we are currently reading those books, we enjoy them very much:

- Miracle Maker, a life of Jesus, retold and remembered by Mary Joslin

- My Perfect Pony by Gaby Goldsack

- Coleccion de cuentos/Story collection Winnie the Pooh Disney

-My Little Book About by Leap Frog, it is a little collection.4180710m6nl_sl500_aa240_
We have : The Birth of Jesus, The Miracles of Jesus, Jesus and the children, David and Goliath, The Miracle of Easter, Noah’s Ark, Daniel in the Lion’s Den, Jonah and the Whale, Stories Jesus told, Poems and prayers, The Voyage of Paul,and Cecilia’s favorite: Joseph and the Coat of many colors.

I found all those books in the Goodwill store next to our home, for just pennies! It is a great way to have cheap books, we go there once a month to renew our collection!

I also will begin study some characters beginning of March, thanks to Bethany who shared this great link to Bill Gothard : Definitions of 49 Characters, it is a great resource for Christian homeschooling.

I think we will study two per week, and we will copy Bethany’s idea putting them on a wall.
But instead of pictures, I will try to find drawings that Cecilia could coloring. I am sure she will love that! :)

So, that is our news of homeschooling!

We basically read books, find stuff from internet, make bubbles, cook, bake, speak, sing, dance, ride bicycle, go to the playground, etc…

What a blessing it is to have my little girl at home and teach her hundreds of wonderful new things! :)

I think we can tell we are hooked on homeschooling!!

Wanna see what people are hooked on? Go to HOOKED ON HOUSES to find out!

And you, what are you hooked on? Leave a comment! :)

 

Valentines treats, kids, bubbles and more! February 17, 2009

Hi there,

What have you been up for Valentine’s day? Here we didn’t do anything special, I am afraid that we just don’t celebrate this day, in Europe it is not that important.

dscf13081So, as we were free from any obligation, we decided to babysit our friend’s daughter Amber. She is a sweet 4 year old, like mine, and we had so much fun!

She is also allergic to wheat, so I found a recipe for her without wheat and we have been making coconut macaroons!

The girls had fun and they both loved the final product!

So, here is the picture of my brunette with her blond girlfriend, and here is the recipe!

Coconut and cornflakes macaroons

You will need:

- 3 egg whites

- 1 1/2 cup coconut flakes (sweetened)

- 1 1/2 cup frosted cornflakes

- 1/2 tsp vanilla extract (optional)

How to:

You will have to blend the coconut and cornflakes together. If you have kids who want to help, give them some cornflakes to “scratch” .

Then you have to whip the egg whites. When it is done, add the vanilla extract and then mix the egg whites with the coconut/cornflakes.

With your hands do small balls to make the cookies. Place them on a cookie sheet and bake them for 15-20 minutes at 300F.

You are done! They are so easy to do, yet yummy! And wheat free if you are interested by that!

For more tasty stuff, go check FOREVER WHEREVER,Kim has many great recipes including a chicken noodle soup today! :)

So this was Saturday night, on Sunday morning I did some pretzels, they were sooo good! If you want the recipe, check HEAVENLY HOMEMAKERS. I made them with all purpose flour and white sugar (I didn’t have honey).

They turned out great!

51e5ojjcghl_sl210_Then we went to Church, we had good time and we spent the afternoon bubbling!! :) Yes, this is the new passion of my daughter, she is crazy about making bubbles!

My mother bought her THIS, and it is a hit! Cecilia can spend hours playing with that in the backyard.

I made some research for our homeschooling, you know if we can have fun and education! … So I will share with you some interesting links about bubbles!

You will find a nice story you can read to your kids HERE, Cecilia loved it!

And I found this great resource for homeschooling, a whole lesson about bubbles and recipe to make your own “bubble mix” . Go check it HERE!

For older kids, you should have a look at BUBBLE.ORG, very interesting stuff.

So, that’s it for today!

How did you spend your week end? Leave me a comment! :)

 

home made play dough! January 26, 2009

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Hello readers!

Today I will post a recipe to make play dough! I posted recently about how my daughter loves play dough. In the picture, she is playing with a well known brand of play dough, because she had it as a gift for Christmas, but usually I always do the play dough myself.

So here is a recipe very easy, for frugal children entertainment, the children can actually participate in the elaboration, and choose the colors!

HOME MADE PLAY DOUGH

You will need:

- 2 1/2 cup all purpose flour

- 1 cup salt

- 1 cup water

- 4 tablespoon vegetal oil

- color (alimentary), a few drops

How to:

You just have to mix all the ingredients together and that’s it!

If you want to keep your child’s artwork, you can bake it at 350F for 5-10 minutes.

Enjoy!

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Teaching french to your child January 25, 2009

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Hey, this post is for those who teach their children french as a second/foreign language.

I want to share a valuable resource for you guys!

This is one of my favorite websites for my daughter, it is in french so maybe it is a bit difficult to go through if you are not fluent but if you click the link, you can find a hole page with hundreds of songs, poems etc. very typical and traditional.

That is MOMES.NET, a great website with a lot of stuff for children.

Then I also found a shop which is specialized in school/homeschool supplies for french and spanish language teachers.

They have really great educational stuff, well is worth have a look! CARLEX.

Well, I hope you found this post useful, if you have other links for foreign language, post a comment! :)

 

The white daisy January 9, 2009

boy_school_sweden1“Érase una vez un niño muy despierto que tenía muuuuchas ganas de empezar a ir a la escuela. Era un niño soñador, por cada rincón iba descubriendo sus sensaciones más profundas. Y, por fin, llegó el gran día.

Entró en su clase, saludó a sus compañeros y se sentó en el sitio que le asignó la maestra. Entonces ésta les anunció que era hora de dibujar.

El niño se sintió increíblemente feliz, pues le encantaba dibujar. Tenía tanto que mostrar al mundo… que no sabía por dónde empezar.

Sacó sus pinturas y dibujó sobre el papel varios dragones de mil colores, con fuego, estrellas y magia. Cuando la maestra vio su dibujo le dijo que no podía dibujar eso, que tenía que dibujar flores. Entonces él apartó ese dibujo y comenzó a colorear flores. No le importó, las flores también le encantaban.

Pero cuando la maestra vio que dibujaba flores multicolores y de mil diversas formas, le dijo que sólo podía utilizar el color verde para el tallo y el blanco para los pétalos. Bien, entonces él apartó la hoja y en una nueva dibujó una margarita. Frunció el ceño, pero aun así le pareció preciosa.

Un buen día sus papás tuvieron que emprender la aventura migratoria y tuvo que cambiar de escuela.

El primer día entró con sigilo, se acomodó en el pupitre que le invitaron a habitar y esperó con prudencia. La maestra entonces propuso a los niños hacer un dibujo. Todos se alborotaron de alegría y comenzaron sus obras de arte. Pero él se quedó a la espera, con una quietud propia de la adultez, y se entretuvo ordenando los colores con parsimonia.

Cuando la maestra observó su actitud se le acercó y le preguntó la razón de su apatía, a lo que él respondió que no se trataba de apatía, sino que únicamente esperaba sus órdenes, pues no quería malgastar colores ni papel sin saber qué debía dibujar. La maestra le dijo que podía dibujar lo que quisiera.

Entonces el niño se quedó pensando durante un rato y, con el rostro repleto de indiferencia, dibujó una margarita”

That is a text I found in a blog I like, it is CRIANDO CREANDO, a site about attachment parenting in Spanish (from Mexico). They always post nice thoughts about this theme and I like to read their articles.

I wanted to share with you this text which illustrates perfectly the system in the public school, how the children have to enter in a “mold” and stay there quietly, how they have to learn that they have to think like the others and not by themselves, etc…

I will try to traduce this text in my best english ;) so be indulgent!

Once upon a time was a child who was very bright and he was so excited about his first day at school. He was a dreamer, everywhere he could discover deep sensations and feeling, everything was new and exciting. One day, was the day, he would go school!

He entered the classroom, said hi to the other children and sat down where the professor told him. Then the professor told it was time to draw! The child felt so happy, he loved drawing! He had so much to show to the world that he didn’t know how begin! He took his colors and drew various dragons with many colors and fire and stars and magic!

When the professor saw that she told him he couldn’t draw that, he had to draw flowers. The child put apart his drawing and began drawing flowers, after all he also loved flowers! But when the professor saw that he was drawing multicolor flowers with thousands shapes, she told him he had to use green for the stem and white for the petal.

OK, so he put apart his drawing and in a new paper he drew a daisy, he thought the flower was pretty though.

One day, his parents had to move to another city and he had to go to a new school.

The first day, he entered in the classroom, sat down at his place and waited quietly. The professor said it was time for drawing. All the kids were so happy but he was quietly putting order in his colors. When the professor noticed his attitude she asked him why he wasn’t as happy as the other children. He said he was happy but he was just waiting for her to say what he should draw, he didn’t want to waste colors and paper drawing something incorrect. The professor answered him he could draw anything he wanted.

The child was thinking for a moment and with indifference he finally drew a daisy.

I hope you understood well my regular translation! I find this text quiet sad, but it is very true. How many children had their dreams litterally killed by an adult way of thinking?

That is one of the reasons I really love homeschooling and I try to let my daughter think as a child it is not that easy though, I often say things to her that are too “adult” and then I regret, but she is a strong little person and has a strong and very own personality that I try to respect even if sometimes we don’t agree one with the other…

The joy of motherhood!! :)