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Bye bye!! April 21, 2009

Bye Bye USA!

I am flying today back home, I will miss this country and the great friends I’ve made here!

I am so thankful for all the wonderful new places I’ve visited, new people I’ve met, and all this new culture I’ve been immersed into! :)

Those last 6 months were fabulous, and even though I am glad to go back to France, I will miss greatly the USA.

I hope I will be able to blog when I arrive and keep you in touch with this new chapter of my life which is about to begin. Keep me and my daughter in your prayers, to help us have a safe trip!

I hope that I will be back in the valley by next fall, until then I will be enjoying my country, my friends, my family, and my culture! ;)

GOD BLESS AMERICA!!

Have a great day :)

 

Traveling with little ones April 19, 2009

You know it, I will spend more than 22 hours in a plane with a 4 years old, and no I am not insane! ;)

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In this post I will share with you some of my tips to travel smooth with small kids.

Since my daughter was born, I traveled with her at least twice a year by airplane, plus lots of car and train. We ‘ve been flying from Spain to Switzerland, to France, to England. From France to the USA and now we will fly from Phoenix to Paris with a stop in Dallas.

So, if you are planning to travel with your little one soon, these advices can be useful for you and your sanity!!

First of all, accept that children are children, and they have their limits. If you are tired, nervous or/and excited, imagine how would be your kid!

My top 5 rules for kids are:

  • Keep them fed
  • Keep them comfortable
  • Keep them entertained
  • Keep them rested
  • Keep them healthy

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So, in order to keep up with the rules, here are a few tips for you:

- Prepare some snacks and drinks for your little ones. Choose healthy snacks, avoid chocolate or sugary stuff that can make your kid sick. You must have plenty of water or juice to keep them hydrated, avoid of course chemicals or sodas.

- Dress your child comfortable. Make sure your kid is not stressed by the outfit, especially the belt, the socks/shoes; and pay attention to the temperature, there are a lot of changes when you travel (airplane/outside/airport, car/outside/AC…) so don’t over dress your kid nor don’t forget an additional jacket or blanket.

- Prepare some stuff for your kids to do. Don’t expect them to stay during several hours amazed by an airplane, they will be used to it 5 minutes after being in the air! So, what I have for my 4 years old is some play cards, flashcards, and I found at Wallmart some great little books with tons of stickers and activities for 3 $ each.
If you have a stop (like I do in Dallas), (if you have time) bring your kid to the play area. Most airports have those now and it is a great relief for kids. They will feel better after some playing and ready for the second half of your trip.The best I have ever seen was in Basel (Switzerland).

- Then, it is important for kids to have some rest. You sure know when a kid needs sleep, he/she will be very difficult to manage. Take a small blanket and a little pillow plus of course your kids favorite plush toy, so you can improvise a little “bed” even in an airport, or train station etc…

- Don’t travel with sick kids! I know, sometimes you don’t have the choice, so if you do travel with a sick kid, please keep your medicine next to you, take a complete outfit (trousers, socks, underwear,…) in your hand bag just in case of “accident”, take a plastic or paper bag (just in case too!!), and make sure your kid is well hydrated and  follow even more the other rules!

- Last but not least, keep safety as a high priority! Don’t let your child unattended even for half a minute! If you have a nervous kid or you don’t feel confident enough to do that efficiently, then attach your child to yourself. It sounds rude but it works! You can use a small scarf or rope that would be attached to your belt and your kids belt, you can also find one of those kinda belts that are made for children when they begin to walk (do you know what I mean?) Maybe you will not look as pretty as you wanted but at least your kid will be safe next to you.
If you really don’t like this idea or don’t need it, you should make a “tag” in form of necklace (a little paper/cardboard with a rope) where you will write the name of the kid, and your cell number on it. Tell your kid that he/she has to keep it always under his/her neck and show it to a grownup if he/she gets lost.

I noticed something that always works with my daughter: when she is tired or doesn’t want to do something or go somewhere I make it a game; kinda Dora the explorer and then she gets excited and do whatever I ask her. Think that travel is great, it is an enormous mind opening adventure for little ones, so we should try to make that a positive experience for them. Make it fun!

Now I am going to pack my stuff, and make sure for the 100th time that nothing is missing, (you know this feeling of “I know I am forgetting something”) and I will hopefully be in my plane to Dallas on Tuesday morning, then in my other plane to Paris, then in a bus to the train station, then in a train to Dijon, and then in my mother’s car to her home……………………………………………………………… I love traveling! Am I weird??? ;) lol

Have a blessed day! :)

 

Post #100 and some news! April 16, 2009

Hi there! How are you today?

This is my post number 100 ! I can’t believe how fast those last months are gone!

Well, some news, I will fly this next Tuesday to France and maybe I will not be able to blog often, I still don’t know if I will be connected.

I am so excited to go back home and see hubby! I can’t wait!…

Did you noticed the new page called “special series” up here? I am working on a new series about how to simplify your life step by step.

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I am sure you will love this one, and I am preparing tons of useful info.

On another hand, I am part of a great project that I want to share with you!


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My friend Dave has been suffering from the ravages of Diabetes for many years.  I know, first hand, all of the trouble this disease can cause.  In the last year alone he was in the hospital 4 separate times.

In order to help others avoid the problems caused by Diabetes he and his team (which I am part of) have developed a web site that approaches the problem from the patient’s point of view. Their mission is to ease the discomforts of people with diabetes and help them avoid the consequences.

We all know someone who has diabetes!

Diabetes can and usually does cause some or all of the following trouble:

  • · Blindness
  • · Foot and Leg pain – even amputations
  • · Kidney Disease
  • · Heart Disease and Strokes
  • · Stomach Nerve Damage
  • · Autonomic Nervous System Damage
  • · And More…. As if the above weren’t enough

If diabetes is detected and controlled, the ravages of the disease can be diminished or even avoided all together.

If you have this horrible and very difficult disease PLEASE visit MY OWN DIABETES. If you know someone who is struggling with a diet and with diabetes please send him/her an invitation to the website.
This website is recent but very effective and the more members the more we can help each other through support, the forum, etc…

I will be in charge of the translation and launching of the french and spanish version. A good opportunity for me to bring some income while still staying at home to serve my family and the Lord!

This is a link which can change your life or the life of a loved one, so spread the word!

And you would also be supporting our family through these tough times!

I also wanted to thank you, all my readers, I truly appreciate your kind comments and knowing that my words here are not useless! I could have not reach the 100 post without you! Thank you and I hope you will stay here with me and read the next 100!! :)

Have a great day!

 

Hooked on stylish bed & breakfast in the French Riviera! March 27, 2009

Today, I want to share with you some of the most gorgeous places to stay around my home town, in the French Riviera.

If you are planning a trip there, you have to read this post, and book a room in one of those charming bed and breakfast!

I definitely love bed and breakfasts, they are a great way to meet people, and live the real life style of the country you are visiting.

But sometimes you can also have bad surprises with b&b! :(

So, here is my Top 5 of the best places to stay in the French Riviera. Design, gorgeous locations and views, etc… sont au rendez-vous!!

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1- LE DORTOIR, a lovely bed and breakfast, the decor is very modern and elegant, and it is my top choice because of the location, it is in the heart of Nice. A perfect place to visit, walk in the old city, go to the beach,etc…

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2- VILLA PANKO is great place, and it is located in one of the most exclusive area of the French Riviera, in Antibes. This little town is the first yachting place of the world, you can admire the multimillionaire yachts and villas, as well as visit the famous “marche provencal“, an open market place where you can find all kind of typical goodies of this area.
Antibes was also the town where Picasso spent all his life, you can visit his museum which is located in an old castle: Le Chateau Grimaldi.

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3- LE ROQUEBRUNE is perfect for those of you who are seeking breathtaking views, and it is located very next to Monaco, in case you wanted to go shopping at Chanel! ;)

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4- LA PARARE is a stunning place with an amazing architecture, perfect for those lovers of old stones! The decor is so stylish and the surrounding absolutely gorgeous.

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5- L’ORANGERAIE DE LA BARONNE is lovely and offers a real “french riviera life style”, with a lot of open spaces, outdoor areas, it is a good choice if you want a quiet place to relax.

So, here we are! My Top 5 of the best Bed & Breakfasts in the French Riviera!

That’s what I am hooked on today!

I hope you liked this post, if you do so, leave a comment! :)

A bientot! ;)

This post was part of: HOOKED ON FRIDAY.

 

A round trip from Phoenix to Concho to Phoenix again! March 14, 2009

dscf1325Last week we went for a wonderful trip from Phoenix to Concho.

We made a round trip from Phoenix to Payson through Tonto National Forest, to Show Low, to Concho.

We spent the night at our friends in Concho and went back to Phoenix through Carrizo, Globe, Miami and Superior. Now I can tell I’ve been in Miami! ;)

You can see the map of our trip HERE.

The first part of the trip takes around 4 hours driving and you can see the gorgeous pine forests, there were even some snow left!

You will go through TONTO NATIONAL FOREST, which is absolutely stunning!

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My hubby is gone for two months! :( March 13, 2009

Filed under: To be a mom, To live, To travel — momelo @ 17:22
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bateau-juillet-07-5Yep, two days ago my dear husband went back to France. He will have to find a job and a house for us. We will be separate until April 22nd, when I will go to France with my daughter.

I am pretty sad, but also very confident. I am sure God will help us in these months to come!

My husband is a sailor, he is a yacht captain. I am sure he will find soon a good job in his field.

I am sorry I didn’t write those last days because I wanted to be full time with my daughter to help her go through this new situation.

She is doing very well, she prays each night for her dad to be safe and happy and for him to find a job and a house (with pink flowers in the garden!!) for us.

Well, it is a little hard but I married a sailor, that’s what I get! ;)

So, I would really apreciate if you would include our family in your prayers, please pray the Lord to guide us, and help us make the right decisions in this new step of our lifes.

Thank you for your understanding! :)

 

My mom’s “new house”!! March 3, 2009

My mom sent me an email yesterday telling me she bought a house!

Here is the picture of it:

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It is an old farm house in the Perigord, a region in France. It is, as you can see, a big challenge!

But my mom is not afraid by all the work needed (noticed the hole on the roof??), and she is very excited by this new project!

The house has a huge plot, (good because they have horses) and lots of beautiful trees and gorgeous views. I can’t wait to see it! :)

It will keep us very busy this summer!!

I will try to post updates about this adventure!

And you, have you ever seen a house that old? Did you face such a challenge to transform a ruin house into your home sweet home?;)

 

Breastfeeding stories! February 16, 2009

Filed under: To be a mom, To travel — momelo @ 18:54
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abc_hayek_2_090211_mn I just read this a few days ago, and I am so amazed not by the story but by the reaction in the media.

Salma Hayek breastfed someone else baby during a trip in Sierra Leone.

It is something perfectly natural for me, and I am sure for a lot of women in the world.

I want to share a story, well two stories, with you.

The first one is my grandmother’s. She was living in Casablanca, Morocco with my grand father and their 4 kids.

It was in 1943, my father wasn’t  born yet, and my grand father who had the Italian nationality, had to go hide in the mountains because Italy was next to Hitler during 2nd World War and it wasn’t a good thing to be italian those days.

My grand mother was pregnant, she found herself alone with 4 kids and another one in the way, and no husband nor incomes.

My father was born 10th May 1943, and as it was normal my grandmother breastfed him. This was a huge blessing, as she had a lot of milk, and she found out that other women in the neighbourhood had babies and no milk, and as it was in middle of the war, they could not go to take goat milk.

My grand mother, who was named Marie, opened a “business”, she breastfed my father and other 2 babies, for money. She did that during 2 years, until the end of the war, and that is the way she could provide for all the family.

It was a joke in my family to tell we were all alive thanks to my grandma’s breasts! :) But I love this story!

My grandma thought she wouldn’t have more baby when she get pregnant, and she was afraid to think how she would feed her family.

This is amazing how God provided, during those tough times, and how my father, just a baby, could somehow save his siblings from starving, just by being born!

At the end of the war, my grandfather could return with the family and they all went back to France where they lived happily.

OK, I said two stories! The second one is mine!

When my daughter was born, I naturally breastfed her, I think I had some of my grandmother’s genes for that ;) .

Well, when my baby was like 4 months old, we went for a day in the beach, in Tarifa, the extreme south point of Spain, you can see the coast of Morocco in front.

We were spending a wonderful day, when all of a sudden, a tiny boat arrived just in the beach we were. It was a boat full of african illegal people.

They were like 40 persons, men, women and children, they cross the Gibraltar passage from Morocco to Spain.

There was a lot of people in the beach, and everybody went to help them. They were all starving, with hypothermia, dehydration,  and very tired. Everybody came to give them some food, water, beach towels to warm them, etc.

A few minutes later the red cross arrived and so the coast guards. This was surrealistic!

The case is that there was a tiny little baby crying, he was like one month old, and his mother didn’t have strength to feed him.

While the red cross people were taking care of the mother, I took the baby and I fed him. I could never forget the look of gratitude of this woman! And this little one, his black hand on my white breast!

It was amazing!

Once more, I think God provided, between the thousands miles of coast in Spain, this baby arrived in the exact place where I was. God made that a little starving baby could met a breast full of milk! :)

These stories are very special to me, I could never forget them, and I really think breastfeeding is a huge blessing that we have to use, and protect!

What do you think about this? Do you think it was a bad thing to breastfeed someone else baby?

Leave a comment! :)

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